Not gonna lie, I flailed a bit when I saw Riddick and Lucian on your list.

Perhaps cityofsin might be a good fit for you? (The EMP ad is over here.) We're a slow-medium paced game on a 3:1 day ratio with only 15 comments per month required for AC (lower for multiple characters). We've got separate network and log communities, and even though it's called the City of Sin, it's not a sex game, just a more adult game that allows exploration of the darker side of characters. The mods are great and always open to player plots and event ideas, and the rest of the players are very welcoming to all sorts.