You don't allow cursing and mild nudity because they trigger you but players who have been harassed and attacked by other players are supposed to give them a second chance and not opt out on them because you think problematic players deserve a second chance, even from their victims?

For someone with a lot of triggers, you really don't see the problem with that attitude?

They started it is absolutely the answer is someone has been abusive towards and another and you're forcing players to drop rather than be required to give their abusers a second chance. That's really a kind of sick and twisted attitude.