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enablemeplz) wrote2016-07-27 05:15 pm
enablemeplz) wrote2016-07-27 05:15 pm
PROBLEMS/SUGGESTIONS
If anyone crosses the line or there's some other issue or suggestion you want to leave, comment here.
NOTE: I live in PST. On Saturdays I sometimes work day shifts or do things when I'm off, where I don't get home until a pretty reasonable time of 5-6 pm in the evening. If I don't get to the post before I go out, I will make sure I post it when I'm home. If it's a rare day I work evening shift, and don't have time to post it before my shift, the post may go up super late (in which case I don't mind people poking to make sure it's going up.)
I have a recurring entry on google calendar that sends me reminders to do the post. Guaranteeing a set day but a flexible time the post goes up will allow me to reliably post EMP basically forever, regardless of my RL situation. As such, I will no longer be answering "will the post go up?" questions unless it's past 10 PM EST. After that, I'll let people know what's up if I'm running late. (Or act on the reminder if I forgot).
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NOTE: I live in PST. On Saturdays I sometimes work day shifts or do things when I'm off, where I don't get home until a pretty reasonable time of 5-6 pm in the evening. If I don't get to the post before I go out, I will make sure I post it when I'm home. If it's a rare day I work evening shift, and don't have time to post it before my shift, the post may go up super late (in which case I don't mind people poking to make sure it's going up.)
I have a recurring entry on google calendar that sends me reminders to do the post. Guaranteeing a set day but a flexible time the post goes up will allow me to reliably post EMP basically forever, regardless of my RL situation. As such, I will no longer be answering "will the post go up?" questions unless it's past 10 PM EST. After that, I'll let people know what's up if I'm running late. (Or act on the reminder if I forgot).
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There are a few 'isms in play here in past and present wanks I don't want users of the meme to risk getting exposed to. And wrt to the smut discussion a clear lack of understanding or ability to accept how complex and individual everyone's boundaries are. imo it was okay to do a plurk to try to get a sense of whether it's okay to ask or not, but I have concerns about OP trying to excessively pre-litigate stark universals to use to navigate what are ultimately individualized feelings in the community. The only true universal is that the only 100% safe way to avoid crossing boundaries is to not try to share tmi at all.
If they want to seek out rp partners or games that's their choice but I do have a choice over whether something I run facilitates it, and contributes to the risk of someone having their boundaries disrespected, so I'll be blocking.
If anyone has concerns about my reasoning please feel free to pm me or ask anon on the mod post here and we can discuss it further. I didn't want to carry on too much about it, only make sure people not familiar with the situation understand enough reasoning to know it's not a frivolous choice. (Also btw I did read everything and am basing this on Jess's own words.)
Please feel welcome in also letting me know if any new journals pop up. I'll block the ones already listed in the BS post. Thanks for bringing this to my attention, anon.