Folkmore might be a good fit for you. It's medium-slow paced and back-tag friendly. It's focused on character development that allows people to find the balance of intensity and plot/sol they like. We don't have any cast members yet, but <33333 to Wind Breaker (from me). It's smut friendly but doesn't usually have smut prompts. And there's no memloss.

Folkmore (folkie) is a panfandom folklore based game that draws across multiple genres. It's focused on character development with an emphasis on character relationships. Thirteen brings people she sees as having potential (for good, bad, whatever) and sets up trials of varying intensities to push characters to achieve it.

A new tdm went up a couple days ago.